Getting Back in the Dating Game When You’re BBW

Getting Back in the Dating Game When You’re BBW

Many women in their 30s and 40s are returning to dating, as their long-term relationships may have fallen apart over the years. During this time, the BBW—Big Beautiful Woman—may discover that the dating game has changed. It can be a surprise to many, but there is still room for more players.

Here are some ways for you to get back into the BBW dates game again. After all, the more knowledge you learn about today’s dating scene, the better your chances at finding a suitable partner.

1. There are plenty of men ready to meet you. While you’ll have your fair share of messages from men who aren’t serious about meeting up, you’ll be able to find some great ones too. Perhaps you are fine with a casual hook-up, or maybe you are seeking a long-term partner—either way, you’re certain to find suitable men on BBW dating sites.

2. Don’t buy into the stereotypes. Not everyone can be a size zero model, actress, or musician. You also shouldn’t expect that all men want is sex either. These are stereotypes that keep on circulating, and all they do is keep people from leading normal lives. If you’re happy with who you are, so will the men who are ready to date you.

3. BBW dating sites were created just for you. If you’re hesitant to sign up for a regular dating size, a BBW dating site may be what you’ve been waiting for. Since it’s already assumed you’re BBW, you can skip past that awkward part of the “online conversation” and focus on finding great men to text or message with. They already know the women on the site are BBW, and are happy with it.

4. Have a makeover. While you can’t change your weight, you can change your appearance. Getting back to dating means a special day of pampering. Book a day at the spa to get your hair and nails done. Buy some special date night clothing. You can look spectacular!

5. Change your attitude. After a break-up, it’s all negative thoughts, all day long. I’m this, I can’t do that, he won’t like me… You need to stop these thoughts immediately. You can retrain your mind to enforce the positive. If you’re alone in your home, sing little songs to yourself. “I love my eyes, I love my hair, I rock this hairstyle, I’m awesome, I’m smart”, and you’re certain to lift your spirits to think more positively.

6. Learn to compliment people. It may be difficult to begin after many criticisms of your ex, but you can start with small compliments, such as clothing, or a man’s smile or eyes. Even men enjoy compliments on their appearance. And it doesn’t leave them guessing as to whether you like them or not.

It may take a few stops and starts before you get back into BBW dating again, but each little effort will provide some great rewards as you begin to communicate with potential dates.


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